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The Table
Private, disarming and designed for men who've outgrown their own success

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You've Delivered 

You built the life.
The title, the income, the legacy of provision.
You stayed the course.

You made sure everyone else was taken care of.

And somewhere in all of that, you disappeared.

What you feel now is not failure.
It is the ache of having done everything right

and still feeling hollow.

You are not broken.
You are just overdue for something real.

Without You

You built what was needed
You provided
You endured

But the man beneath the mask
The one who hungered
The one who howled
He was suffocated in the name of being good

This is for the man who feels the drift
And is ready to come back to himself
Not someday
Now

Not through therapy
Not through metrics
Not through performance

But by laying the truth on the table
And letting it cut away whatever no longer fits

Until what remains is not a role
But a man
Finally breathing in his own skin

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The Table: A Private 3-Session Experience

You do not need another strategy call
You need a place where you can finally say what has been choking you for years

This is not a fix
It is an experience that undoes you

On purpose
With precision
Held with reverence and no mercy

We meet three times

Once to face what is weighing on you
Once to speak the desire you have never said out loud
And once to decide the man you are becoming
The one your name will be remembered for

No worksheets
No performance
No recording

Just you and the truth

Details, including contribution, are shared privately
Only five men are invited each season
If it’s time, write to me

Who I am

For two decades, I’ve coached men through the parts of life they were taught to hide.

Grief. Emotion. Anger. Regret. Legacy.

I’ve worked with executives, founders, fathers, and men at the edge of reinvention,
men who built everything, but still couldn’t feel themselves inside it.

Before The Lodge, I spent years in home hospice, sitting bedside with dying men.
I learned what longing sounds like when there’s no time left.
And I carry that knowing into every conversation I have now.

The men I work with do not come because they are falling apart
They come because they have held it together for too long

I am not here to fix you
I am here to witness what no one else can hold

How to Take Your Seat

The Table is private. Always.


There is no application
No scheduling link
No funnel

 

If you feel called
Write to me

Tell me what brought you here
Tell me what you’ve never said out loud
Tell me what part of you is ready to come back

Your words will not be shared

This is between you and me

If it’s time - You’ll know

Most men keep performing.
The ones who sit at this table don’t.
If you're ready...

What They say when the room goes quiet

No fluff. A place where you can just say it like you want to say it. 
It's work. Not gonna lie. But the results are immediate and deep.  
I keep coming back. That's how important this is.
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